On this page we are hoping to highlight issues relevant to you regarding relationships and to provide you with some ideas on how to get support in Westminster and beyond should you need it.
In future we are planning that this space will also include your own experiences re: relationship issues. We are currently working with OUCH, Westminster's youth magazine to develop this area further. If you have ideas on topics you think should be included in this section please use the contact us page to let us know.
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Being a parent
Becoming a parent will have an affect on all areas of your life: in your personal and family relationships, education, career choices and lifestyle. However there is advice available to help you make the right choices for your circumstances and support available for you as a parent as your child grows.
The following services provide support and advice to parents:
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Family life
Our family relationships can be very complicated, although family members are probably the people we care most about they are also the people we often argue with most. This is normal and it often helps to talk things through with parents or friends. However sometimes family relationships can become violent and people can get hurt. If this happens talk to someone who can help e.g. a teacher, youth worker or social worker.
The following services provide advice and information:
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Sexual Life
When you choose to have sex for the first time and who with is YOUR CHOICE. There can be a lot of pressure placed on you by others to have sex, however 7 out of 10 young people under the age of 16 haven’t had sex. If you do feel ready to have sex with your boyfriend/ girlfriend remember to first talk about contraception. You can get confidential advice on contraception from your G.P. even if you are under 16
The following services provide advice and information:
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Friendships
Friendships are about fun and involve give and take, respecting and trusting each other. Making friends can take time and normally happens with people you have common interests with. However sometimes friendships can go wrong or we can be picked on and bullied. Bullying is not acceptable and should always be reported to someone who can help e.g. parents, teacher, social worker.
The following services provide advice on making friends and stopping bullying:
